Friday, December 3, 2010

Guess I should've expected this.

So, I was asked that question today...the question all baby loss momma's hate:  "Do you have any children?"  I guess I should've expected it.  After all, I do have a new job, with lots of new people.  I thought I handled it okay though.  I kind of paused, and the person thought maybe they were being too personal.  I told them no and explained why I hesitated.  I didn't explain much, just said that, yes, I have a daughter, but she passed away just before birth.  And that's as far as it went.  It wasn't quite as hard as I thought it would be.  I'm just glad the person didn't ask any more questions.  I don't know if I could've answered them.  So, maybe it won't be quite as hard as I thought.

I am a proud parent of a beautiful baby girl, who just happens to have wings!  Missing my heart...

3 comments:

Cindy said...

Mary, I could NEVER pretend what what your going through is something understandable because its not. The picture you posted tonight just showed me a beautiful baby girl that was meant to be in your arms but got wings instead. I love you. I love Addison Breann because she is a part of a person that mans the world to me. Thank you for giving me a picture to the angel that should be here today.

Missy said...

I think we surprise ourselves in those kind of moments. Because we do want people to know our babies existed. Sending love!

Missy said...

For whatever reason blogger won't let me get to your latest post. It says not found. Weird. But wanted to let you know I linked you for some blog love!

 
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